German 101

In a household where everyone is often running just a few minutes late for nearly everything, I was confronted with the unique challenge of hosting a German Music Exchange student in the midst of a summer filled with kid’s work and internship schedules, college classes, summer camps, getaways, driver’s ed and swim team.  While I was initially excited at the prospect of the second of my children participating in a cross cultural exchange (last summer my son visited our student’s home in Rheinbach, Germany), I could feel my anxiety level rising as I reviewed the very full itinerary and rehearsal schedule planned for the German guests visitng Rhinebeck this summer.

To make matters worse, our truck died a slow, painful death just three days before his arrival leaving us with one car and seven very busy passengers.  I complained, I groaned, I fretted and lost more than one night’s sleep.  I comforted myself with the notion that my son would have a unique hosting opportunity and he would learn and be enriched  as a result of this experience. I also acknowledged that I could forget the idea of getting much writing done for the two weeks  our guest was in town.  So I put on my chauffeur cap, grumbling all the while and waited for my son and children to be wowed by German music, language and culture.

They weren’t.  Don’t get me wrong.  They enjoyed our guest.  Were even  kind and gracious, but they were typical “not impressed” American teenagers.  While I drilled our guest on questions about his family, food preferences, hobbies and the like, they twirled their pasta.  While I laughed with our guest while trying to learn German and he tried out new American phrases (think “YOLO” and “square dancing” and “tacos”), they were peering at their text messages.  By the time his stay came to an end, I had learned so much from him, the exchange, the shared love of music, that I can barely wait for the next.

With the help of friends, everyone got where they needed to be and a good time was had by all.  But as I snapped the last photo,  exchanged one last hug before he boarded the bus and wiped away more than one tear, I thought about all the things I learned from his visit.

He taught me the importance of being prompt.  And in order to be prompt, you need to be prepared.  Plan the night before what you’ll need, set your alarm, don’t complicate things by reinventing the wheel each morning (eggs or a bagel? protein shake or yogurt? Chinese flower or decaffinated green tea? ) “Toast and a little marmalade please,” each morning are all that’s needed to start a day and be on time.

He taught me to be a good guest. Make the bed.  Keep your room neat.  Bring a good book to read, compliment a home cooked meal by asking for seconds (and thirds!)

Never underestimate the value of a  family dinner.  I noticed during one meal as the dinner conversation took a turn into a heated debate, our guest sat, quietly observing.  When I gestured that he was free to leave and not subject himself to a seemingly endless debate, he opted to stay put.  “Do you have family dinners like this at home?” I asked.  “Yes.” he smiled.  “Only not so loud.”   I would wager those family dinners taught him as much about American culture and family than any visit to Times Square/Empire State Building/Ellis Island and the Statue of Liberty combined.

Send a postcard.  Even in the age of facebook, twitter and Instagram, there’s nothing like taking the time to write a note, stamp and address it and put it in a mailbox.  Small gestures go a long way.

Speak the language.  Or at least try.  Or at least pretend to try.

And finally, when in doubt, Smile.  It is the international symbol to relax people, ease tension and make others smile in return.

Complete with all the sarcasm they could muster, my children suggested that since I so enjoyed this experience,  (all comparisons to our German guest are now strictly verboten), perhaps on the next exchange in four years, I should consider going as a chaperone.  My kids may never learn to make it out of the house on time or make make a bed daily, but they do make excellent suggestions….

Lesa Cline-Ransome

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The Happiness Equation

Math has never been my subject.  When divvying  up a restaurant tab makes you hyperventilate,  calculating any type of equation can generally cause fits of anxiety.  Mathematicians tell you that what they most love about math equationnumbers is that they make sense.  Plug in this number here, and this number here and voila, the same answer, every single time.  There is a certain satisfaction that comes in knowing that subjectivity will not alter an outcome.  But I’ve always wondered if there is an equation for Happiness.

Is it Money + Mindfulness,  Friendship + Passion, or  Gratitude + Spirituality, or some configuration of each that add up to Happiness?

It’s not that I’m a hedonist, seeking pleasure at every turn.  But it seems everywhere I look I am asked to find my joy.  Every other article offers The Science of Happiness, The Formula for Happiness.  One of my favorite fragrances is named Happy.   I’ve sometimes wondered how can I possibly be sad when there are so many solutions for happiness?

I once read an article that said we expect too much happiness in our lives.  That if we were to measure happiness output, we should aim for approximately 5 on a scale of one to ten.  The article concluded that is a near impossibility to operate at optimum happiness on a daily basis and, that for most of us, a mid range happiness allows us to feel pleasantly engaged, upbeat and satisfied.  Euphoric? No.  But a solid happy.

Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project, makes her living by analyzing Happiness.  Her bestselling book has blossomed into a podcast, television segments, a book sequel and blog.  I pored through her book, hoping to find answers to the elusive question of happiness. Here’s what I found:

  • Fake it Till you Make it:  Pretending to be Happy is almost as effective as actually being happy.
  • Find Something you love and do it.
  • Give more of yourself to others.
  • Be Serious About Play.
  • Make Time for Friends.

Each chapter offers practical, logical approaches to finding happiness, yet if this equation were so simple, why is it so many I know complain of being unhappy?

Like Gretchen, I’ve done my fair share of research on the subject.  After a conversation with one friend who told me that happiness is overrated, I began to wonder if the search for happiness is purely an elitist construct, left to those with the luxury of time to contemplate matters of self.  Did my ancestors really ask themselves if they were being serious about play, or if they were doing what they loved?

With all of my searching, I stumbled upon an answer one day much closer to home.  It was one of those days when I felt as if spring would never arrive.  The sun was shining but the bitter cold lingered just beneath.  My 93-year old mother was visiting, and I was feeling my normal, pressed for time, frantic self, rushing to complete revisions, return emails, and pack for an upcoming trip.  My mom, had awoken late, had her breakfast, and made her way unhurriedly into the sunroom to read.   When I went in to check on her, I stopped at the door and watched.  She sat quietly, book untouched in her lap, smiling.  She was looking out of the window at the sun,  the remnants of snow and the promise of spring.

“What are you doing Ma?” I asked.

“It’s so pretty outside,” she said.

And I realized then that  I was looking at the happiest person I know. This was the face I’d watched my entire life, looking out the kitchen window at her next door neighbors, on a car ride, reading a book, mending clothes on our sunporch, preparing a meal.  Quiet, contemplative, happy.   As far as I know, she’s never written an article or a book on the subject, yet she is the essence of joy, finding pleasure in moments large and small.  And then I dared asked The Question.

“Are you happy?”  She looked up and paused.

“I don’t think much about being happy,” she answered, with a smile.  “But I trust that if things aren’t going well, they will soon.”

In that moment, my mother revealed her life doesn’t hinge on a happiness equation.  But when there are moments of joy, embrace them and have faith that there will be more to come.  And just like that, my mother solved the most perplexing equation by offering up a solution that didn’t involve variables or formulas. While I sought out happiness, she lived happiness.

Or in purely mathematical terms:  Life + Optimism + Faith in the Outcome = Defining Your Own Version of Happiness.

 

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Rah Rah Rah

I hate cheerleaders.  Or at least I thought I did.  I am a feminist after all and feminists hate cheerleaders.  They are the epitome of what we fight against. The female faces of objectification.   They stand on the sidelines, all aglitter in tiny shorts and crop tops, ponytails bobimg_cheerleadingbing, fake smiles pasted to their faces, cheering on men, while men play and strategize and score points.  The cheerleaders are the entertainment while the men are the main attraction.  But just recently, my attitude toward cheerleading has begun to soften.  I am still a feminist.  I would still like to see more women compete in sports. But I also realize that though I never wear a crop top and my hair is too short to wear in ponytail, I too am a cheerleader.  It may not be on AstroTurf,  but much of my day is spent cheering on others, hoping and praying they score a touchdown.   Let’s begin with the most obvious—my husband.

Twenty-seven years ago when we exchanged our I do’s, in my feminist’s eye, I naively saw a marriage of complete and utter equality.  My father once sarcastically asked if we both had to wash our own dish and fork after each dinner.  I wasn’t quite that extreme, but I did see our union as a marriage of equals, but then along came kids.  First one, then two, then three and then, yes, four.  His career soared.  My career fizzled. But I was so happy for him.  He worked harder than anyone I knew.  He deserved it.  So I cheered from the sidelines as he scored touchdown after touchdown. Not only did he not share in the dish washing, he didn’t know where the dish detergent was located.  I would have my day, I reasoned.  And then he would cheer me on.   But I kept cheering him and then the kids.  Each first, each cheerio, each tooth, each step,  gold star, trophy, graduation.  I joined Team Motherhood, the hardest working group I have ever huddled with.   I cheered even more when there were losses, propping them up when they were down, encouraging everyone to keep going.  When they struggled and stumbled and fumbled the ball, I kept a fake smile pasted to my face and screamed louder, pretending all the while, they were just steps away from a win.  I cheered on friends and family too as they ventured out, wavered, transitioned and struggled in their own ways.   While I screamed my throat raw, sometimes I collapsed at night into bed as exhausted as if I’d completed a double full basket move.

When the time came for me to embark on my writing journey, I was sure I would never make the cut.  But I knew how to cheer, so I began by softly reciting my own to get me on the field.  And then I  heard the roar of louder voices behind me.  Give me an L.  And I started writing.  Give me an E.  I sent in my manuscript to an editor.  Give me an S.  I revised and revised.  Give me an A.  I sold it and started all over again.  What have you got—Lesa!  Each and every one of their cheers, my husband’s included, helped me put my own points on the scoreboard.

It wasn’t just me and my strength and resolve and fortitude that were racing through those goalposts.  It was the cheers from my squad of family, friends and yes, my kids, that were propelling me forward.  I did much of the work, trained hard, studied the plays (forgive the metaphors, but the Super Bowl is just around the corner), strapped on my helmet and cleats, but it was those cheers from the same folks I cheered from the sidelines that helped me to sprint all the way downfield.  It was then that I realized I don’t hate cheerleaders.  How could I?  The cheering business is not for the faint hearted.  They are a tireless group that makes you feel like an All Star when you are batting like a Little Leaguer. Just maybe, it’s the cheering from those screaming, pony tailed acrobats that help to win games.

Have a tryout.  Pick your squad. Be sure their voices are strong and loud and will drown out the boos from the stands.  We all need them.  But I’m still not sure they really need to wear tiny shorts and a crop top.

 

Lesa Cline-Ransome

 

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Can we Talk?

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I knew that writing about Harriet Tubman for my newest book, Before she Was Harriet (which releases today) would be a difficult task and that is exactly why I waited years to do it.  Since childhood, Harriet was my hero.  Courageous, rebellious, fierce, she was everything the anxiety-ridden, fearful me wanted to be.  Her story stood in stark contrast to others I’d read in my grade  school textbooks that in my child’s mind, portrayed enslaved peoples as willing participants in a system orchestrated by “savvy” whites over “docile” blacks.  As the only black in a classroom of whites, I felt shame wash over me during these lessons where my entire ancestry was painted as one of victimhood.  In all of these stories of slavery, Harriet Tubman emerged as the outlier, proof of a people with a rebellious, fighting spirit.

As the years passed and my education broadened to include a more accurate history, I often found myself engaged in heated discussions with many who clung to those textbook versions of historic events.  And in those arguments, I often came away battered and bruised and angrier.  But that is what difficult conversations do.

 

Slavery is the piece of history no likes to discuss.  It creates deep divisions and reopens wounds.  Emotions range from guilt to defensiveness to shame to fear.  But when is a good time to have difficult conversations?

Some of the most difficult conversations I have had are with one of my closest girlfriends who differs from me in nearly every way—racially, culturally, socioeconomically, geographically, religiously.  We met during our freshman year of college, and I was drawn to her assertive, politically incorrect style, which was in direct contrast cover

to my New England tact and liberalism.  She came armed with strong opinions and stereotypes, compassion and curiosity in equal measure at a time when I was raw with the pain of too many classrooms of people who didn’t look like me who told me told me that my history was less than when I now knew better.  We talked. We argued.  We challenged.  And surprisingly, it was as invigorating as it was respectful.  Through the years, we went our separate ways, moved away, made new friends, and came back together, stronger in our beliefs but softened too by how the ugliness of the world could be cushioned just a bit by a friend with whom you could ask hard questions and receive honest answers.  Gradually it was trust and then love that allowed us to talk without fear of judgment and have genuine discussions.    On many topics, we will never agree, but the difficult conversations continue to grow us in our understanding of each other and the worlds in which we live.

 

I will be the first to confess, I struggle with initiating more of these honest conversations outside of my echo chamber.  I am not all that interested in hearing why you believe (insert opposing political and social viewpoints here), but I do recognize the importance of having the  conversation.  They can clarify our thinking, help us sort through difficult topics,  remind us the world is full of people with a variety of viewpoints and every so often, those varying  thoughts can also offera new perspective.

.Conversations are a step in the right direction, but when we can’t find people with whom to share difficult conversations, an understanding of history may be the best weapon we have in combatting the “isms” we all face.

The writer Chinua Achebe once cited the African proverb, “Until the lions have their own historians, tales of the hunt will always glorify the hunter.”   As a child, all those years ago, the full story, the truth, was owed to every child in my classroom.  Not just the stories in the textbooks.  Not just Harriet’s.  But the many more that reflect the wide-ranging experiences of peoples that provide an accurate, alternative view of history to provide context and deeper content.

When is a good time to have difficult conversations?  Books for children that commemorate diverse historical figures may just be a good place to start.

 

Lesa Cline-Ransome

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Thanks for the Memories

I live in the past.  I am a keeper of mementos, a one woman storage facility of memories.  I often tease my siblings that should I die, they would have no recollection at all of our childhood.  Like a parlor trick, upon request I can recall the most mundane snatches of memory.  I’ve had friends call to ask the name of an old boyfriend or the name of a song we loved in college.

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Me, age 12 (photo courtesy of Kim Facey Witherspoon)

But as much as I Iike to boast about my sharp memory, it is a double-edged sword.  I am a highlight reel of every holiday tradition, car trip, and secret, but I also never forget the smallest  slight or unkind word.

A good memory is what writers rely on, but writers for children have to reach even further back in their memory banks to retrieve childhood moments.  The dreams, emotions and motivations of childhood are what we seek in order to write authentic voices for children.  Childhood is often fondly referred to as the most idyllic period of our lives, yet I remember how often I was scared, or felt vulnerable and powerless in face of adults.  How insecurity plagued me throughout middle school and my hopes and dreams seemed infinitely, impossibly far away.

How easy it is to forget who we once were.  This month I will gather for my annual getaway with my childhood girlfriends. And though the four of us live distinctly different lives, miles apart,  reunited we are once again exactly who we were in middle school.  In these women, I see a reflection of who I was all those years ago before I went off to college, moved away, married, became a mother.   In some ways I’m much the same—loud, opinionated, a storyteller.  But they remind me that I was also once carefree, fun-loving and spontaneous.

I often share with my children that once upon a time I made some bad decisions, was impulsive, and indecisive.  But for the most part, they continue to  see me as a rule follower, a straight arrow, structured and disciplined.  Recently when visiting the trendy Forever 21 store with my teenager, I pulled out a patent leather mini skirt and wistfully remarked,  “I love this.”

My daughter, looked at me shocked.  “Who are you?” she asked, confused.

But in my teenage years, that patent leather miniskirt was me, complete with boots, fishnets and a turtleneck, it was my look. Last time I checked, they weren’t selling them at Banana  Republic.  The years, or more specifically, the responsibilities of adulthood, have a way of erasing our former selves until all that’s left is a misty, watercolored memory.

Often when I write scenes with young characters and their parents, I reference my own.  And in doing so, remember how holding my mother’s hand could erase many of my fears.  The surge of guilt I felt every time I lied or disappointed them.  The rage I felt when I was grounded.  The pride of showing a good report card and how I looked to the stands to see my mother’s face after I ran and won my 200 meter heats.   When I write about the powerful moments between parents and children,  I remember the cool baths my mother ran for me on warm summer days and the hot cereal my father cooked on cold winter mornings.  When I write about setting, I remember the winters of my past, and my mother smearing Vaseline on my face before I walked to school to protect against biting wind and cold and listening on the radio with my brother and sister for word of a snow day and how I wished we lived in the town of Arlington or Belmont, so we wouldn’t have to wait quite as long to hear the name Malden, when they listed the school closings alphabetically.

Memories evoke powerful emotions.   And emotions evoke powerful memories.  I am grateful for memory and for the characters who demand that I remember the young girl I once was.

 

Lesa Cline-Ransome

 

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Love Thy Neighbor

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When  my family were asked to appear on the cover of a recent local publication, my kids were stumped.

“Why would anyone want to feature us on a cover?” they each asked.

“Probably because we are a writer and illustrator couple,” I offered.

But they were not convinced.  And with our many foibles and averageness, I can certainly understand their confusion.  Children’s book writers and illustrators aren’t typically those who receive the spotlight so we happily endured our share of teasing andrhinebeck living

accepted the compliments of our neighbors when the issue was released.  But what touched me most was being reminded of the beauty and warmth of community. How the noble purpose of this publication is to bring neighbors in closer contact with each other through images and stories.  In an age of social media and negative political discourse, face to face dialogue with the people who live in your community, seems to be going by the wayside.

Shortly after the issue was released, I walked into the grocery store and heard my name called.  I expected to see a friend, but instead, an unfamiliar man approached with a broad smile.

“I saw you on the magazine,” he said as he introduced himself.

We exchanged pleasantries, chatted a bit and discovered we had much in common. We talked about getting together one day and exchanged business cards. By the time I got home to unpack my groceries, the phone rang.

“Are you and James free for brunch tomorrow?” the grocery store man asked.  He and his wife lived nearby and so, despite my daughter’s concerns that we would become homicide victims,  we spent hours the next day at the home of newly found neighbors over mimosas and homemade blueberry muffins, talking, laughing and sharing.

Both James and I grew up in communities where people knew and cared for each other.  The type of community where a child’s behavior outside of his home was closely monitored by all adults.  Where word of misdeeds and successes traveled like wildfire.  I loved visiting my neighborhood shops where the owner of Saul’s market asked after my parents.  Where the salesman at Hanlon’s Shoes remembered my narrow feet and performed magic tricks while I tried on pairs,  and how at Mrs. Pendelton’s salon, her hot comb shaped my hair into the page boy style I loved.

Contrary to popular belief, communities aren’t only in small, rural towns.  They are in places where you feel at home and welcomed wherever you go.  Where people aren’t afraid to say “Good Morning,” and root for each other’s successes, both large and small.  It is the grocery clerk, a fellow New Englander, who provides me with weekly Patriots and Red Sox news each week when I do my shopping, and the  library volunteer who critiques my reading selections at check out and the  “local’s discount” provided at my favorite store in town, that make me feel like a celebrity.

Years ago, when my oldest began her college search, she insisted on applying only to very large schools.  After of years of living “under a microscope” in a small town, she longed for the anonymity of a large university, where she would go unnoticed.  Yet, not one year into her studies at that very large, university, whose size was nearly triple the population of her hometown, she felt lost.  She went from a town where neighbors reported when she ran a stop sign, which was often, to a campus, where no one noticed when she was sick for days on end.  It was only after graduating, that one by one, she found a community in her housemates, in the large home they share together in a large city.  That home has become the headquarters for them and many other friends to celebrate milestones, garden, cook and dream.  She commented recently that by just minding your own business, you sadly mind no one else’s.

In strong communities, the victory of one is the victory of all and neighbors earn celebrity status, not from being in the spotlight  but from battling a cancer diagnosis, graduating kindergarten, emerging intact from a devastating divorce or loss of a loved one, launching a new business venture, running for school board.   By opening our homes to each other, we open dialogue, we broaden our neighborhoods.  We experience belonging.

Home is where the heart is, but it takes heart to make a community a home.

 

Lesa Cline-Ransome

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The End is Near

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 No, this is not the prelude to a political rant about how the current administration is sending us on a collision course with disaster.  But this is a blog about my beginnings with The End.  As in The End of Times.  As in the Apocalypse.

My fascination with the apocalypse could have begun as early as six years old when I read and reread the Chicken Little story.

“The sky is falling,” Chicken Little warned his friends Goosey Loosey and Ducky Lucky.  I guess I’ve been waiting for the sky to fall ever since.

Apparently I’m not waiting alone.  Sales of George Orwell’s novel,  1984 have drastically increased in recent months.  From my early years of Chicken Little’s foreboding prophecy, I’ve been contemplating the world’s demise via one dystopian, post-apocalyptic novel after the next.  Stories that explore our humanity, or lack thereof, in the midst of crisis, make me flip the pages as fast as my fingers can turn.  From The Lord of the Flies to The Giver, to every single Planet of the Apes film ever made,  imagining a future world overly reliant on technology, or a world absent of it, makes me ponder my own chances of survival.  The possibility of electromagnetic pulse malfunction, drought, virus, plague, nuclear weapons, governmental manipulation, political upheaval, or natural disasters have led me to think more about boosting my skill set in gardening, stockpiling, medicinal plants, self-defense, game hunting and archery.

The flip side to writing for children, is the exploration of the darkest parts of ourselves.  And how can we celebrate the best parts without understanding the worst?  Somehow, the darkest dystopian novels make me feel safe.  The world may be close to collapse, but I am still here, cooking, cleaning, parenting, writing.

I have reasoned that if I just read just one more book about how civilization can survive in the wake of a mysterious plague, I’ll at least have a store of knowledge, useful when the world comes crashing down around me.

Dozens of books later, I’m still reading and preparing and waiting.  Lucky for me there are no shortage of new titles for me and my fellow fatalists emerging each month.

Then again, maybe this is a blog about how the current administration is sending us a collision course with disaster….

Below some of my favs to read before the end arrives:

Adult–

Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood

One Second After by William R. Forstchen

The Country of Ice Cream Star by Sandra Newman

California by Edan Lepucki

Gold Fame Citrus by Claire Vaye Watkins

The Long Walk by Stephen King

Kindred by Octavia Butler

The Road by Cormac McCarthy

The Dog Stars by Peter Heller

Into the Forest by Jean Hegland

Oryx and Crake by Margaret Atwood

City of Savages by Lee Kelley

Underground Airlines by Ben Winter

The Water Knife by Paolo Bacigalupi

The Last Policeman by Ben H. Winters

The Mandibles by Lionel Shriver

Station Eleven by John Mandel

 

Young Adult–

The Giver by Lois Lowry

Life as we Knew it by Susan Beth Pfeffer

Monument 14 by Emmy Laybourne

Not a Drop to Drink by Mindy McGinnis

The Eleventh Plague by Jeff Hirsch

 

 

Lesa Cline-Ransome

 

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Nothing to Fear

Time_exiled_night_window_lightI’ve always been afraid of the dark. For as long as I can remember, I slept with a night-light. As a teenager, after seeing the movie The Exorcist, I crawled into bed with my parents for one week. Many of my fears are of the garden variety sort–bugs, owls, getting lost, the dentist.  But others have no basis in logic, like my fear of losing my finger to a circular saw, being abducted, falling off of a cliff at the Grand Canyon and choking on a butterscotch candy (an actual incident from my early childhood).

“The only thing we have to fear is fear itself,” FDR said in his inaugural address.  But those words don’t slow a racing heart or stem the drenching sweat.

Fears aren’t exactly rational, but they do have their perks.   I will venture that fear can mask itself as courage. Let’s take for example the number one fear in the Fear Hall of Fame–public speaking. In grad school, I once so badly mumbled and jabbered my way through a presentation, my professor told me I had to present again the following day in words he could understand. But my fear of public speaking has prompted me to obsessively listen to others speak and study those who do it well. And I while I have yet to master Obamaesque oratory skills, I can now string together coherent sentences and, on occasion, offer a mildly entertaining presentation.

Fear of failure has made me work hard. Fear of poverty makes me save my money. Fear of germs makes me clean my kitchen. Fear of losing makes me competitive. Fear of my life spiraling out of control has makes me organized. I would love to relax into each moment,  but it seems I am afraid of being afraid.

For years I feared I would never be a writer. That despite all of my best efforts and my inner talk telling me my writing was good enough, good even, I was certain that editor after editor would read my manuscripts and laugh out loud while writing cruel rejection letters. I wrote multiple drafts, checked my punctuation, read it aloud, wrote new drafts, each time, terrified of the outcome. When I was finally ready to make my way to the post office, I would send it off secure in the knowledge I put everything I had on those sheets of paper, but still fearful of the envelope that would return from the editor. The boogeyman has nothing on a woman with a deep-seated fears and a vivid imagination.

All of that fear was funneled into a take my time approach to writing.  The sheer fear of sending it out made me sit with each piece just a little longer before submitting it. And giving myself the time with my writing has helped to strengthen it.

I no longer need a night-light, but lurking in the darkest corner of my psyche and perched on the steepest cliff of my subconscious sits fear, my harshest critic, my constant companion.

Lesa Cline-Ransome

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